Thursday, April 2, 2009

project week :: letting go

Reading Camp Creek in particular Making space for their ideas. I made myself a focus page and placed it on the fridge- I keep referring back to it. It helps me to keep more mentally with it (you know I'm a sleep-deprived mama), to keep focused especially when things get a little hot. This is not a battle of the wills (we have some very strong wills is this little hot house) when difficulties arise its an opportunity for me to help them either look at something a different way or get some fresh air and come back.
Having a dialogue going of what they want to do, finding the energy, the interest, their meaningful work-this is really the starting point. I love words like facilitate, support and guide, they change the focus of my role so rather than me-tell you-do, I'm working along side, with, journeying together as the days unfold and minds open with newness and excitement at discoveries. Sometimes to get to the discovery it takes a little unraveling as in with my nine year old who finds it a little more difficult to be flexible and move around obstacles.
He has a clear picture of want he wants to achieve and usually it is something quite elaborate and large scale. For this project he wanted to build a Zoo that would be as large as our dining table -obstacle no.1. When we talked about that as in where would we eat?, where would the others put their work?, when it was completed where would we store it? He declared it couldn't be done so that was that. After some 'guidance' he decided he would do a garden where the zookeeper lived. This was an achievement in itself, that he was able to move through having to change his original idea and be flexible, qualities that don't come naturally to him.
I keet asking the kids at each phase 'What do you need?' 'Is it going how you like?'.
I feel the energy and contentment when they get into a groove.




I'm learning that I put my suggestions forward more than I realised and in doing so I'm taking away from their own authentic learning. What do they gain if I'm not giving them room for trying out their ideas even if I might be able to see a quicker way or that it probably won't work. We all need to learn these things for ourselves otherwise it isn't authentic is it? So I move aside, don't get too involved, am near enough when those obstacles arise. Sometimes even when the bumps do appear I'm still not needed, this is such delight for a mama's heart. To see the resourcefulness and determination to complete the objective.
The more I'm out of the way the more I see who my young ones are. Their trueness can surface because I'm not crowding it with my ideas and my way or the highway baby which usually only leads to a battle. I see their strengths and weaknesses and can note how they respond and learn best.
I'm noting down in the Project Journals as we go along and I'm referring back to it because I don't remember a thing these days. When there is no energy, a flatness or a wandering I go back to previous notes and remind them of things that they were talking about or wondering.


My 8yo daughter wasn't sure what she wanted to do and seemed to be more interested in what the boys were doing as they were energetic about their projects. We talked about her recent interest in Little house on the Prairie, we talked about animals and landscapes piggybacking on the boys ideas. After a bit she asked to look on the Crafty Crow for some inspiration and she came across a hut. Recently I picked up a few packets of paddle pop sticks to keep the craft cupboard well stocked and so she had all she needed to get on. For the rest of the week she was so focused and excited with what she was doing. And as with the boys once it started coming together more ideas were being born.


I copied this quote down which I just love-
"The challenge is how to help our children find their happy life, their fulfilling work, their connection to what really matters" Camp Creek Blog
because that is so much of what we want as parents. To see our young ones thriving, flourishing and making connections. It certainly isn't always easy, some days feel like a balancing act and some or all the plates are falling. I'm trying to makes sure the least important are the first to go. And usually that means me letting go and letting them.

12 comments:

Lori said...

love!!!! can i share this back on ccb???

Skye said...

Thankyou Lori. Of course you can.

Kezwick said...

Thank you for sharing this Skye, so wonderful and inspiring to see examples of their learning this way! Well done xx

Lori said...

posted!

http://www.whiteoakschool.com/camp-creek-blog/2009/4/4/their-trueness-can-surface.html

thrilled by your post, skye, and thank you so much for your references to the camp creek blog. love sharing your progress and your process!

E and T said...

Hi Skye

I have just come over from Camp Creek Blog and have enjoyed your inspiring blog and thoughts about your homeschooling journey.

I am also a fellow Brissie mum and am looking forward to popping back very soon for a visit.

Elise

reneegrace said...

hi, I came over from Camp Creek Blog. I noticed you are in Australia, and we are moving over there at the end of next year... I'd be interested in hearing about home schooling in Australia. We'll be in Perth, not sure if the requirements are different in other states or not.

Thanks!

OH - and I loved this post. This project thing is not... NOT my forte! But I'm looking forward to the summer / new-baby break to try some more relaxed project stuff.

AWESOME!

Skye said...

Ohh,wow! Welcome and thankyou for your kind words. If you have any questions regarding homeschooling in Aust please e-mail me and Ill send you a bunch of links and some of the resources that have helped me.

Dawn said...

Thanks so much for sharing your experience. I too follow Camp Creek and have learned so much from Lori!
It was good for me to hear about your son scaling down his project... my daugher tends to have grand plans that just can't be contained in our little house... or are way beyond what she is capable of at the moment!
We are working on reworking her ideas to make then more manageable for all of us... without squelching the whole idea! Hard!

lindsay said...

hullo skye thanks for recording the wonderful things you all do I just wont to reach thro the screen and cuddle ,kiss you all

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